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Welcome to the Chapter 7 Bankruptcy category of the Bankruptcy Support Group. Is Chapter 7 bankruptcy right for you? This is the place for discussions about Chapter 7 Bankruptcy.
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Discussion: Why do people say filing Chapter 7 is so "gruelling", "gut wrenching", etc?  (Read 6864 times)
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« on: August 05, 2009, 01:53:52 PM »
Daredevil09
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I'm considering filing 7 and I would like to know what I'm in for.  I really have no choice but all I can see right now is the benefits.  I need to hear from someone who's actually gone through a recent Chapter 7 and find out...how deep the rabbit hole really goes.  What kind of monsters will I encounter in this trip through hell?  What kind did other people encounter? 
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« Reply #1 on: November 01, 2009, 04:34:20 AM »
greenjacket
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hi can any one help me.
i have been living in the usa for five years now but i have had to come back to the uk for one year because of medica probs.
while i have been hear my bussines as gone down big time and i want to go chapt 7 can i do it all from the uk ? does any one know thank you.
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« Reply #2 on: January 27, 2010, 11:41:50 AM »
Mikey
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I filed last July. Be sure you have an experience attorney! There are options that you have that a good attorney can direct you too.
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« Reply #3 on: February 04, 2010, 09:01:36 PM »
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I just filed for 7 - after my husband lost his job, and he then moved out - leaving me with all financial responsibility - so I filed for divorce. Then I couldn't keep up with the bills and maintenance costs of the house anymore, plus, my employer implemented unpaid time off which means less income for me. And I had excellent credit for over 20 years and been most responsible all my life!

First I decided to negotiate my two mortgage loans - that's when my credit began to crumble. Not a nice feeling, but I knew this would happen. Next, my Chase credit card interest rate went totally up - that was unexpected and caused me frustration. I also had another loan and credit card from BofA. After some research, I decided to try debt settlement, signed up with a firm for that, and started to pay into an escrow account for that. Meanwhile, my first mortgage company was considering a modification - yeah - I was so hopful to keep my home!

So far so good, right? Nope - as soon as I signed up with the debt settlement firm, Chase mailed me legal papers - they were suing me! That was unexpected and that's when I began to feel awful. So now I had to contact a lawyer who suggested chapter 7 - and because of my good income, I will have to let the house go to even qualify! So now I am loosing my home and my credit for 10 years! I had to gather every statement, every bill, every expense, and sign legal papers and now I need to start packing to move as the house will be foreclosed soon. In the meantime my new boyfriend breaks up with me because I am a bit more frustrated than usual - and my cat just died so, my car needs a $1000 repair, and  my family lives far away so I basically have little support.

Filing for bankruptcy is gut wrenching to me becuase I worked so hard for over 20 year to buy a home and build a perfect credit, and then within a year I see myself losing it all at once.  I am hoping for the better times to  come and pray to have my life back one day - but right now going through this is hurtful, frustrating and makes me feel rather lonely as I don't like to talk to anyone about it.

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« Reply #4 on: March 05, 2010, 09:39:26 PM »
annie laurie
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The road to filing for Chapter 7 has been long and stressful. I became a single mother to a young child at the age of 25. I had a good job but I just could not make ends meet. Over the course of 5 years, with no child support from my son's father, the stuff has finally hit the fan! I never bought anything luxurious or expensive - the only thing that I use a credit card or a loan for is rent, food, clothes, etc. Now I am finally filing for chapter 7. Now I am happily married and my new husband is helping me through this very difficult process. The hardest part is coming to terms with it, finding the support to get through it, and not to mention the calls you sometimes get at work. I work in a busy pharmacy that is independently owned and it is hard to maintain a low profile. I am close to filing all of my paperwork and paying the fee to my lawyer to have it done. Needless to say, I can't wait until it is over. I really am a smart and capable individual financially, it was just hard to do it on my own!
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« Reply #5 on: September 21, 2010, 10:24:39 AM »
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My Ch 7 bankruptcy just went through. It was a long process that began in January. My story is much the same as the others I've read - job layoffs, marriage problems, a mountain of bills/debts, etc. It's amazing how many people are going through the same things right now that you never know about. When I had my court hearing, I found myself in a room with more than a dozen others - and an overworked official who had to hear all the cases in about an hour. Amazing. The one piece of advice I'll give to anyone who is considering this is to hire an attorney that specializes in bankruptcies. The one I used made the whole nerve-wracking process a little more bearable. They also understood my disastrous financial situation and worked out a manageable payment plan for the fees and costs. Oh, and don't wait until everything spirals out of control. I started "running the numbers" a year before I filed and realized that if nothing changed I was going to have to take this step. At the time that I filed, I hadn't missed a single debt payment (but I was down to zero resources and looking at big, big problems). I went the route of consulting with CCCS, but the repayment plan they came up with was ridiculous. I also called one of my credit card companies and asked if they could shuffle the debt to make my monthly payments a little lower. They declined, and actually advised me to file. I spent countless sleepless nights worrying and fretting, and my health declined. In a really awful situation, it was my last and only resort - and now I just need to learn to live with it....and get on with my life.
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« Reply #6 on: August 26, 2011, 05:22:18 PM »
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Wow, this is an old thread!
pretty much everything has already been said about the process that can be said. it is grueling and nerve racking. it also attacks your self esteem in ways you don't realize. My lawyer seemed ok with his end of the process but was slow in answering my many, many questions over the 4 months my process took. My lawyer does specialize in bankruptcy. during our first consultation though he said 2 things that he was wrong about and later retracted. 1 was that we would have no trouble finding a mortgage company to loan us money for a house "right" after the bankruptcy. and 2 that directly after filing we could start looking for a house. see we have an IRA we can cash out after all this. its not enough to bail us out of our current financial woes but enough to give us a down payment on a new/older home. we will be losing the current house in the bankruptcy. we will have 15k to put down on a home and we are looking at trailer homes for 25 to 30k to move into. trimming way back from the 2000 sq foot home we're giving up. but our guaranteed monthly income is only 2k a month from last years of 70k (we were both laid off and close to retirement so we took the retirement). but we are finding out that no one will even talk to us about a loan for 3 years after the bankruptcy even though up till last year we had perfect credit for over 40 years and we are putting 50% down on a home.  its sad.
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« Reply #7 on: November 14, 2011, 10:34:09 PM »
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I suggest you get a buyer's agent realtor to help you find a house with Seller financing.
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« Reply #8 on: December 21, 2011, 01:32:10 PM »
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I just received my discharge papers yesterday or the day before.

I filed at the end of August 2011 and cashed in part of a 401K to pay the lawyers.  I asked him if he could lower the fee and he gave me a deal that if i paid him off in two months, he would take $200 off of the fee. I had him paid in a week and a half.

Aside from tons of paperwork, and one lawyer in the same office I didn't care for who I kept ended up with, The process was fairly painless.  The worst part was that I had to give up a credit card for a company that I loved and had for 19 years and wanted to continue paying, but they said I had to give them all up.

I was current on all of my bills up to the day I filed. That really killed me as I always paid my bills on time every month, but my losing my job 20 months ago meant robbing peter to pay paul and it got to a point where peter didn't have anything left to rob, so I had no choice but to file bankruptcy.  If I had gotten another job, I wouldn't have had to do this.

I still have my house since it's in both mine and my husband's names, but all my CC debt is gone ($68,000 worth) so that stress is gone. I still need a job though. *sigh*

BTW I used Peter Francis Geraci and their offices really know their stuff. The commercials are lame, but he's good.
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